"God does not love us because we are good,  we are made good because God first loves us. "

"Do not rely on others to make you happy.  You are responsible for your own happiness. " 

"If a person truly loves and care about you, he/she would want the best for you, and will not be upset if you can't attend to their needs.  Therefore, it is ok not to be a people pleaser. Life would be too tiring to try to please everybody."